1. Visualization. Visualize a positive ending to whatever your problem
is. If you are worried that your mother-in-law to be will try to take
over your wedding day, envision a wedding day where all is calm, you are
in charge, or your chosen wedding planner runs things without a hitch.
The trick--visualize positive!
2. Reject Your Wedding Worries. There is not a bride out there who does
not have SOME worries, but it's how she handles them that separates the
girls from the women. Girls stress out, throw temper tantrums or act
out. A woman rejects her wedding worries. She knows 'what will be, will
be.'
A good way to handle those worry woes? When a worry arises, X it out
with a mental red marker. This ritual for worries satisfies a brides
need to DO SOMETHING.
3. Be a Bride with lists. Divide your worries into two columns. one
column of things you can do something about, one column for the things
you can't change. Follow the ones you can't change for several weeks and
see how many come true and how many don't.
I think you will be pleasantly surprised how many DO NOT come true.
Lists are great for other things as well when wedding planning, but the
worry lists have a calming effect on bride-itis.
4. The wedding worry jar. Here's how it works: write
down everything that worries you on a piece of paper and drop them into a
"Wedding Worry Jar" right before you go to sleep at night. This gives
your brain 'permission' to relax and let those worries go while you get a
good night's sleep, waking refreshed and able to tackle any wedding
worries in the morning.
5. Now that you're more relaxed, take some time off from wedding
planning and do something totally non-wedding! Go to a baseball game, a
Monster Truck show, take your fiance on a picnic in the park, or just go
for a drive in the mountains or down to the beach. Whatever you choose,
the rules of day? No talk about weddings!
Feeling better? I bet you are, even if it is just because now you have A
PLAN! And as Hannibal on the A-Team used to say "I just love it when a
plan comes together!"
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